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Posted by Jeevan Sivasubramaniam, Managing Director, Editorial, Berrett-Koehler Publishers Inc.
To celebrate the release of their newest book, "Being Buddha At Work ," authors Franz Metcalf and BJ Gallagher have compiled five simple mantras to carry you through your work day's trials and tribulations:
1. Remember, every day is a good day
Yunmen addressed his monks and said, “I do not ask about before the 15th of the month; tell me about after the 15th.” Nobody said anything, so he answered himself: “Every day is a good day.”
2. Nothing wanting, nothing extra
It is completely open,
Nothing wanting, nothing extra.
Hold or reject and
You lose its thusness.
-Sengcan, “Trusting in Mind”
The third Zen Ancestor, Sengcan, describes the great way, the path of the sages. No “too much” here. It is we who create categories such as “too much” and “too little.” But in the Buddha mind there is only what is-no evaluations of excess or insufficiency. And, since there are no evaluations, there is also no stress caused by judgments and assessments, nothing wanting and nothing extra. The Buddha mind surveys your e-mail, the piles of paper on your desk, the work in your briefcase, and simply says, “Thus.” The Buddha mind does not suffer, because it has no pre-conceived ideas about the volume of work. Without suffering, we are free to work without the distraction of holding on to our imagined reality or rejecting our actual reality. We are free to find the ease of openness.
3. Be kind to yourself, first
May I be physically healthy.
May I be mentally happy.
May I be free from fear.
May I find peace.
-Variation on the metta (loving-kindness) prayer
His Holiness the Dalai Lama has told us, over and over, the simple truth that the purpose of our lives is to be happy. But do we listen, really listen? Seemingly not, since we slip back into the patterns that continue to frustrate us. But ask yourself: What if the Dalai Lama had decided he’d never be happy until he freed Tibet? He’d have been too miserable to share his wisdom with others; too angry to win the Nobel Peace Prize; too drained to devote his life to freeing his people. But there’s Tibet, still dominated by China, and there’s His Holiness, still working and still smiling. Why? Because true happiness-ours and the Dalai Lama’s-comes not from external success but from the internal peace of feeling that your life is aligned with your values and beliefs. How can you be happy? Start by being kind to yourself and you immediately can expand that kindness to others. Just as the Dalai Lama does with China.
4. It’s okay to be wealthy
When he uses his wealth properly, kings don’t take it, thieves don’t take it, fire doesn’t take it, floods don’t take it, and unworthy heirs don’t take it. His wealth, used properly, goes to good ends, never to waste.
-Samyutta Nikaya 3.19
The Buddha had no problem with people making money, or even getting rich. The sutta quoted here tells that, when people of integrity become wealthy, they provide for their families, underlings, and friends, and they give to worthy causes, aiming toward supreme happiness. There is nothing wrong with this picture. Wealth is neither good nor bad: wealth is neutral. It’s a tool we can use for noble and laudable purposes-or to wreak havoc and destroy others. Goodness follows from neither riches nor poverty. Goodness follows from wise choices.
5. Other people’s faults are other people’s problems
Treating others the way he’s treating me,
He’ll be destroyed and then I shall be free.
We’ve all had the experience of working for a bad boss. Perhaps you’re having that experience right now. First, know that this is not your problem. Problem people’s troubles are theirs, not yours. You might feel the consequences of your boss’s or teammate’s difficulties, but the difficulties and troubles are theirs and stay with them.
Next, there’s that little old thing called karma. In this case, you’ll be happy to see karma in action, but, remember, it’s not your job to even the score. You are not the hammer of karma. Stay out of other people’s karma and take care of your own. If you really want to be a good student of the Buddha and are willing to take on a difficult learning assignment, we have a radical suggestion: love your problem people. They can teach you lessons that wonderful people never can. Someday you may look back and realize that you became stronger and more resilient, patient, kind, and compassionate as a result of working with jerks.